Guide
The home buyer’s guide
Every stage of buying a home, in the order it happens, and what you decide at each one.
8 steps · 8 minute read
Buying a home is a series of decisions made under deadlines. None of them is hard on its own. What makes a purchase stressful is not knowing which decision comes next, or how long you have to make it.
This guide walks through the stages in order. Every property is different and so is every contract, so treat it as the map, not the route.
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Step 1: Talk to a lender before you look
A pre-approval tells you what you can borrow and tells a seller your offer is real. Most sellers expect one with any offer. Getting it first also means you tour homes you can actually buy.
Your lender handles the loan. Your agent uses the letter when writing an offer and keeps the lender in step with the contract dates.
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Step 2: Agree how you will work with your agent
Before touring homes you sign a written agreement with your agent. It sets out what the agent does for you, how long the agreement lasts, and how the agent is paid.
Agent compensation is negotiable. Read the agreement, ask what you will pay and who pays it, and do not sign anything you do not understand.
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Step 3: Decide what matters, then search
Separate what you need from what you would like. Size, layout, commute, outdoor space, the condition you can live with, and the work you are willing to take on.
Visit an area at different times of day. Drive the commute at rush hour. Walk the streets. Public information about schools, crime and zoning is published by the relevant agencies, and your agent can show you where to find it.
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Step 4: Tour with a purpose
Look past the paint and the furniture. Check the roof line, the windows, water stains on ceilings, the age of the heating and cooling, and the electrical panel.
Take notes and photos at every showing. After the fifth house they blur together.
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Step 5: Write an offer
An offer is more than a price. It sets the deposit, the contingencies you keep, the closing date, and what stays with the house. A seller weighs all of it.
Your agent looks at recent sales of similar homes to help you decide what to offer. When other buyers are interested, the terms often matter as much as the number.
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Step 6: Inspect the home
Once your offer is accepted, the inspection period starts. A general inspection covers the structure and the systems; specialists can look at the roof, the sewer line, pests or anything the first report flags.
Sort the report into safety and major systems, things that will need money soon, and cosmetic items. Negotiate on the first, budget for the second, and let the third go.
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Step 7: Work through escrow
Escrow holds the money and the documents until everything is ready. The appraisal, the loan approval, the title report and the disclosures all arrive in this period.
Every contingency has a deadline. Missing one can cost you your deposit or your right to walk away, so your agent tracks each date and tells you what each decision means before you make it.
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Step 8: Final walk-through and closing
A day or two before closing you walk through the home to confirm it is in the condition agreed and that any promised repairs are done.
At closing you sign the loan and transfer documents, the funds move, and the deed is recorded. Then you get the keys.
The short version
- Get pre-approved before you tour.
- Agent compensation is negotiable and agreed in writing before you tour.
- An offer is price plus terms; both matter.
- Every contingency has a deadline. Know each one.
This is general information, not advice about your situation. Zoila Moscoso can tell you what applies to you.
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